恨父母的心越来越重

lz你这样说真的太欠抽了作为一个母亲对你关于你自己的孩子的种种言语零容忍。也不觉得你的病是抑郁症可以解释的～

楼主看看劝你的你也听不下去，不如睡之前看下《楢山节考》吧，生命得以延续，老了才有所依靠。

忧郁症或精神分裂症可以解释,只是别人不懂而已

看到层主的第三段，想起了我听过的心理咨询师高浩荣的节目，题为“一切都是父母的错？”，或是“没有完美的父母”。听了那期节目以后，我的心心境转念很多，对父母的抱怨从那个点以后开始逐渐释然。

“楼主有了今天的眼界，请别忘记那是一路上有人替你挡风遮雨让你无后顾之忧的去闯。”赞层主这句。

楼主可以联系领养电视剧里不是有那种养父母从产房就把孩子抱走的吗？既然那么不爱，就送给那些想要孩子缺无法得到的夫妻吧。对楼主和孩子都是好事。

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排这个楼主你嘴巴可以收敛一些吗
快去看医生吧
把孩子送人
别拖累了孩子
反正我们怎么安慰怎么开导你也是听不进去
好恐怖的帖子

抑郁症，放过自己的孩子吧孩子最是无辜

听说生出来就会爱上孩子的

我就是这样以前各种不喜欢小孩
还准备丁克了

你已经疯了急需治疗

楼主自己一开始不也是一坨子烂肉在你妈妈的肚子里吗？难道你是从天上掉下来，拍拍屁股自己长大的吗？
不是一样没本事需要麻烦别人才能平安长大吗？
如果你的妈妈对你像你对你的孩子这样恶毒，你会是什么样子呢？
虽然没经过你的同意，你的爸妈就把你生出来了，但起码你是健康的，你是被爱的。那你的孩子呢？他也是没经过他同意，你们就把带到这个世界的，你这样恶毒，他会是健康的吗？他是被爱的吗？他被你带到这个世上受苦，都得不到自己妈妈的爱护，你不觉得自己罪大恶极吗？
不管你自己是多么的淡然，自我，不食人间烟火，但对于一个因为你而产生的一个无辜生命，还是要负起责任，给他保护，让他活的轻松一些

恨错了对象，恨永远宣泄不完父母对孩子的恨绵绵无绝期，因为他们真正恨的是自己的父母。

我知道我不正常 除了丈夫和父母不会跟认识我的人展露着一面我知道他们会当我是变态。 所以一直戴面具。 我很希望我能有正常的思维和感触。就可以享受现在的生活。 像大部分人一样。踏踏实实的。

但是我感受不到，很痛苦。

回复少不更事啊。

可以人肉吗？然后打电话去IMH
IP地址啥的查到吗？
哎这是如此的悲哀

其实应该要想办法联系上她老公避免悲剧的发生。哎...

典型忧郁症抓紧吃药了

你不是特殊的人，很多人也有过类似的感受读过一些心理学的书，有你类似的案例，虽然比例不高，但也不是从未听说过。

恨是看不到的生命力，有强烈爱或恨的人都是具有很强生命力的。只不过被了解，被看到就变成爱，反之就是恨。

不要judge自己说自已有这种想法不好，不道德之类的。完全接受自己，不要评价自己，接受真实的自己。希望自己亲人死掉的想法在心理学中比比皆是，不要觉得太可怕。 接受不完美的自己和周围人的不美好是第一步。 第二部是不完美带给自己的益处是什么。

后面的步骤，你可以私信我，我帮你介绍一些专业人士给你。

从网络寻求安慰是种很幼稚的做法，别人不会懂你！而且你的人生不需要别人来judge.你才是自己的英雄。

祝夏安。

ps 那些随便抨击别人的人要多学点心理学，你们的做法是把楼主推向深渊，楼主需要的是完全接纳，然后在慢慢改变。

楼主也就是嘴上说说而已的多休息就好啦

这个孩子要生下来会很可怜小弥留之际

楼主产前抑郁了。。。。

楼主产前抑郁症找专业的医生看看